psyched

so i read this little tidbit of info on the internet the other day. it said that psychology claims that if two past lovers can remain just friends, its either they are still in love, or never were.

so hmm. i've thought about that since i read it and i'm not sure whether i think it might be true or not. but then i got to wondering if the flip were true. if two past lovers can't be friends, are they either still in love or were they never?

so well, just thinking over the major relationships of my life- here's where we stand friends-wise.

so there's really only one x-lover of mine that i'm definitely not still friends with. i can't think that we ever will be friends ever again. although that's something that he'd promised me once. oh well. you can't believe much of anything anyone promises you, you know.

then, i think i'm more or less friends with my x husband. although i'm not really sure of that exactly either. i guess i'd like to think we both forgive each other enough not to hate each other. and i don't really mind talking to him. so i guess we're friends. of a sort.

there's another former "guy" that i'm friends with now. although for a great long while, i was furious with him and hated him. but that was rather a misunderstanding on my part, i guess. but things are cleared up now and i would actually say we are good friends now.

and then there's one more i'll talk about- from when i was young. and i can't really say we are friends now, but we parted as friends. and i've no reason to think that we wouldn't get along just fine now if we were in proximity.

but even after i think through these, i'm still not sure if either claim about ex lovers and friends still being in love or never being in love is true or not. and quite honestly the more i think about it, the more confused i get about it.