unfriendliness

so have you unfriended or been unfriended over the election yet? i have been unfriended. and i have considered it. and i have supported a friend who has unfriended. right now however, i'm not yet inclined to. on social media, i've decided to ignore the hatefuls, continue to be as opinionated as i want to be on my own page, ignore their pages, and if they come to mine to pick a fight, they'll get one. and if they choose to unfriend me, i'll tell them, "don't let the door hit ya."

i really don't care. i. do. not. care. there is literally no one that would unfriend me that i give two hoots about. and quite honestly, there is no one really who can rattle me by disagreeing with me, insulting me, calling me evil or stupid or ridiculous. (ok, i did once get rattled by this woman who was quite persistent in literally calling me stupid. and i told her friend that if he didn't shut her down, then i would. and it would not be pretty. and i never heard from her again.)

but that aside, i'm a fair amount of unflappable about people insulting me anymore. i suppose that comes from having someone who you thought loved you call you evil and vile. once the worst has happened, what the hell does any of the rest of it matter? it pretty much frees you not to care.

for the record- i am not evil. or vile. i make my share of mistakes. i'm sometimes clumsy and inarticulate. i'm pretty opinionated about stuff, and i'm not inclined to keep those opinions to myself. and if you insult me or my children, i may just snap if i've had no sleep, and insult you back. but that hardly makes me evil. or vile. it makes me a person who you might not like. but not evil. or vile.

but i'll tell you who is. the people who voted for trump. and Mike Pence. he is evil and vile. yeah, i know you thought i was going to say donald trump. you thought i was going to say he was evil and vile. and while i despise him, and he disgusts me, and i guess i consider him vile; i'm not really sure i consider him evil. i just think he's a spoiled brat jerk, and he's horrible and a ridiculous caricature of a man. but that's not exactly the same as evil. again. mike pence is the epitome of that. donald just wants to ruin other people's lives so he can look like a big shot because he's a narcissist. it's what narcissists do. they can't help it. they think only of themselves. pence, on the other hand, wants to ruin people's lives because he's deep down evil inside. and i honestly believe when he accomplishes an evil thing that it makes him happy. he might just be the anti-christ, if you ask me.

oh so anyway. i know i'm babbling. this week has exhausted me. anyway, i think i started talking about unfriendliness. and somehow it ended with calling pence the anti-christ. was that unfriendly?